I’m a work in progress, as is this list…
Some items I have done previously but this list was “started” in July 2008 so all things crossed off have been done since that date…
Items in Progress
Items Completed
JUST FOR ME
- Keep a short-term to do list and complete items weekly for a month (8/28/08)
- Start a journal and journal at least every other day
- Start a happy journal and identify 500 things that make me happy (86/500)
- Get a haircut every 3 months (Haircuts: 2)
- Start and use a calendar for a month (8/28/08)
- Update my wardrobe with clothes that fit and I like
- Get a pedicure at least 12 times a year (Pedicures: 4)
- Get manicures twice a year (Manicures: 1)
- Have five “me” days a year
- Write Avery a letter
- Make a list of 50 things I like about myself (34/50)
- Find the perfect foundation in the right color
- Identify five bad habits and work on getting rid of them (0/5)
- Dress up once a week even if I’m just staying home
- Write a personal mission statement
- Get a facial
- Get eyebrows waxed
- Start tanning a few times a week
- Buy something for myself once a month (Months: 6)
- Get a massage
- Spend money on five things I normally wouldn’t (0/5)
- Find acceptance in two private matters I’m struggling with
- Be more positive
- Be less critical of myself and others
- Be more patient
- Gossip less
- Love myself
- Get professionally fitted for bras (3/1/09)
- Learn to have realistic expectations of myself
- Spend a whole day in bed “just because”
- Try the “miracle fruit”
- Fill a journal with inspiring quotes
- Start wearing jewelry on a regular basis
- Create an inspiration board
- Dye hair four times a year
- Buy a cute pair of sunglasses
- Find the perfect black dress
- Have my own garden
- Celebrate my Golden birthday (28th) by doing something special
- Buy a new favorite purse
- Make a conscious effort to complain less
- Learn how to complain effectively and do it when need be
- Learn to “count to ten” before speaking if I’m upset
- Do something that terrifies me
- Smile at everyone I meet
- Learn to be thankful for each day I’m given
- Complete Simple Abundance book
- Take the Meyer-Briggs personality test
- Feel comfortable in a bathing suit
- Have breakfast in bed
- Become less materialistic
- Get a haircut I really love that works with my hair’s texture
- Indulge in the luxury of having a bi-weekly or monthly housekeeper for at least a couple of months
- Make a list of feelings I want to feel in my life and then figure out how I can achieve them
- Make an effort to worry less (for a month)
HEALTH
- Lose 50 pounds (0/50)
- Finish a 5k
- Go to the gym (or workout) at least 3 times a week (Workouts: 4)
- Get my teeth fixed (10/10/08)
- Keep track of my monthly cycle
- Drink one glass of water a day for a month (0/30)
- Take vitamins every day for a month (0/30)
- Do 100 push-ups (www.hundredpushups.com)
- Learn ten yoga poses (0/10)
- Go without caffeine for one week
- Develop a nightime routine and stick to it for a month (0/30)
- Go to dentist for cleaning twice a year (Cleanings: 1)
- Find a primary care physician
- Go to eye doctor for a checkup
- Go to dermatologist to check moles
- Get a pap smear done once a year (Done: 2008)
- Compete in a triathlon
- Do crunches every night for a month
- Complete online anxiety workshop
- Be able to do 50 situps without taking a break
- Look at MIB
- Go two weeks without eating any fast food
- Get skin tags/moles removed
- Complete a 5k
- Complete a marathon
LOVE
- Plan wedding and get married
- Cook dinner at least once a week for Sinisa (Cooked: 2)
- Write a letter to Sinisa once a month (Letters: 1)
- Take 20 walks with Sinisa (0/20)
- Watch the sunrise
- Watch the sunset
- Do two romantic things for Sinisa a month (Things: 8)
- Have a date day/night once a month (Dates: 4)
- Take dance lessons with Sinisa
- Complete ‘1001 Questions to Ask Before you get Married’ book (76/1001)
- Complete The Love Dare book twice
- Dance at home with Sinisa
- Go on a romantic picnic once a summer
- Go stargazing
- Listen to 50 of Sinisa’s favorite songs (1/50)
- Go to pre-marital counseling
- Take a carriage ride
- Kiss Sinisa at midnight on New Year’s Eve (1/1/09)
- Kiss Sinisa in the rain
- Kiss Sinisa under water
- Kiss Sinisa under the mistletoe
- Buy Sinisa something he’s been wanting once a month (Items: 7)
- Have a candlelight dinner
- Do 31 day prayer challenge for Sinisa
- Do 30 day husband encouragement challenge
- Make a list of free date night ideas
- Go on a romantic cruise- just the two of us
- Go on a double date twice a year
- Visit a B&B with Sinisa
- Make a list of 100 things I love about Sinisa (14/100)
- Do something special for each anniversary
- Complete marriage journey book
- Take Sinisa to a hockey game
- Complete “21 Day Complaint Free Marriage” online (simplemarriage.com)
- Call into a radio station and dedicate a love song to Sinisa
- Place a love note in the personals
- Write wedding vows
- Bring Sinisa breakfast in bed one morning (3/15/09)
- Convince Sinisa to write down his goals so I can help him achieve them and cheer him on
- Complete a crossword puzzle book together
- Throw a surprise birthday party for Sinisa
- Leave Sinisa a love note on the mirror in lipstick
- Write Sinisa a love letter and hide it somewhere he can find it
- Learn how to make crepes and make them for Sinisa
- Go on a weekend getaway w/ Sinisa once a year (kid free)
- Kiss Sinisa at the top of the Eiffel Tower
- Attend five “couple” activities a year (Attended: 1)
BEING A MOMMY
- Have another baby in 2009/2010 (6/25/09)
- Send birth announcements for Jacob
- Write a letter to Jacob once a month (Letters: 2)
- Read 500 books to the boys a year (Read: 400+)
- Get Jacob’s pictures professionally taken (Pictures: 15)
- Get Luke’s pictures professionally taken (Picture: 3)
- Take five belly maternity pictures while pregnant w/ Lucas (only took 3/5)
- Take a photo of Jacob everyday for a month (8/28/08)
- Make and update monthly a growth chart for Jacob
- Complete baby book for Jacob
- Order boys’ birth certificates
- Learn ten new songs to sing to boys
- Take Jacob to story time (9/12/08)
- Write Jacob’s birth story for his baby book
- Input list of Jacob’s “firsts” online and keep it updated
- Write letters to Lucas
- Baby proof home
- Teach Jacob baby sign language
- Potty train Jake in 2010
- Record 100 videos of Jacob and Lucas and post online (4/100)
- Raise happy children
- Be on the PTA when they are school age
- Choose a middle name for Lucas (2/22/09)
- Organize Jacob’s shoes by size (2/2/09)
- Teach children about their heritage
- Send my kids to college
- Always support my children’s dreams
- Start a journal for Jacob
- Start a journal for Lucas
- Start a quote book when children can talk
- Complete Baptism book for Jacob
- Look into homeschooling
- Take 1 or 2 pictures with the children each month so I don’t look back and regret that I don’t have any :
- Get “Avery, Jacob, Lucas” tattooed (but first research where on the body is the least painful)
- Plan great first birthday parties for each child (Jacob’s-5/30/09)
- Bake and decorate birthday cakes for each birthday
- Keep the children cavity free
- Complete a scrapbook for each year of their childhood
- Make “school year” boxes for them and keep special items
- Go on family vacation once a year
- Coach a team for each of the children
- When children are schoolage develop a family emergency plan and review it together twice a year
- Get Lucas baptized
- Host playdates at least once every other month (Playdates: 3)
- Become members of the zoo
- Become members of the children’s museum (5/09)
- Become members of the community pool
FAMILY
- Spend one day with each person in my immediate family
- Visit with family often
- Write a letter to 10 people who are important to me (0/10)
- Trace my family tree
- Contact each grandparent twice a year (Good amount of contact made w/ Grandma D)
- Take a picture with ten people I love and write a paragraph about our relationship (0/10)
- Get a family picture taken twice a year (Picture taken 6/26/09)
- Send out Holiday cards and family updates each Christmas (Times Cards Sent Out: 1)
- Write thank-you’s for all gifts received
- Plan a “mom and me” trip
- Take my parents to dinner
- Go to family reunion every other year
- Keep a list of family traditions I’d like to start/maintain
- Put flowers on grandma and grandpa’s graves
- Visit mom’s grave monthly
- Buy a family dough ornament every Christmas (Bought: 2008)
- Send a thank you letter to my parents thanking them for raising me
- Cook one Holiday meal and invite all family over
- Take a picture of all my dad’s grandchildren together, frame it, and give it to him as a surprise
SOCIAL
- Visit with college friends once a year
- Have a girl’s day/night once every other month (4)
- Attend at least 15 meetups a month :)
- Host five parties at my house (2/5)
- Get in touch with three people I’ve lost contact with (2/3)
- Call someone just to chat once a month that isn’t family
- Make ten new friends a year (Done: 2008 and 2009)
- Host a Holiday cookie exchange
- Keep track of friends birthdays and send out cards
- Become active in Moms of Infants group :)
- Write notes to ten of my friends telling them what they mean to me
- Attend 10 year high school reunion
- Make a life-long close friend
- Widen my social network
- Go on one child-free weekend getaway w/ friends a year (Done: 2009)
- Write a letter of encouragement to a friend who needs it
HOUSEHOLD
- Make a cleaning schedule and stick to it for a month (0/30)
- Organize bedroom (5/09)
- Clean out file cabinets (2/09)
- Finish decorating the nursery
- Clean closet (8/9/08 and 3/16/09)
- Clean bathroom and maintain for a month
- Have fresh flowers in the house twice a month (Times: 9)
- Bake five times a year (Times Baked: 5)
- Make my desk area more usable (2/3/09)
- Clean out under bed (3/31/09)
- Sanitize all Jacob’s toys
- Go through magazines and purge, then keep only ten (8/09)
- Frame and put out/hang pictures of family
- Clean and organize laundry room (9/09)
- Go through green laundry bag and hem/fix or take to cleaners
- Hang framed art
- Organize kitchen cabinets
- Fix carpeting by bathrooms and kitchen (2/16/09)
- Paint bathroom walls (5/09)
- Clean out closet in Jacob’s room (8/08)
- Clean out storage closet (5/09)
- Setup a household message system on fridge
- Organize family life binder
- Plant a cherry blossom tree in the backyard (once I own a home)
- Finish spray painting frames and hang them
- Shred old receipts/files
- Make project files
- Condense “school” boxes
- Clean out and organize my makeup
- Buy and setup a hammock outside and then use it
- Load pictures onto digital frame
- Cover crib rails
- Paint nursery windowsill (5/09)
- File papers in “to file” container
- Make an outdoor play area on balcony (5/09)
FINANCIAL
- Pay off $1000 in debt a year
- Establish a 1 month emergency fund
- Establish a 3 month emergency fund
- Establish a 6 month emergency fund
- Talk to family member about taking care of Jacob in case of our deaths (Talked to my dad 8/15/08)
- Draft living will
- Pay off car loan (actual loan paid off but still $722 $672 in fees to pay)
- Open a saving’s account
- Save for a down payment and move into a rent-to-own house
- Develop and stick to a budget for 3 months (Done: March 2009)
- Call SM loan and create payment plan
- Call GL loan and create payment plan
- Pay dad back for CB loan (Months paid: at least 6)
- Listen to Dave Ramsey’s financial CDs
- Sell five things on ebay/Craigslist (2/5)
- Purchase a new car
- Get current with all bills (3/7/09)
- Check credit reports once a year
- Pay movie store fines
- Pay library fines
- Have one no spend day a week (no spend days: 4)
- Keep track of spending and checking accounts for 3 months (Done: March 2009)
- Invest in a stock I pick myself
- Setup all bills for online bill pay if possible
- Find out FICO score and improve it (3/18/09)
- Save at least $50 monthly (Done: 3/09)
- Save $1000 using coupons (Saved over: $250)
- Own a home
- Have a garage sale
- Save enough money to live comfortably when I retire
- Complete Simple Dollars “31 Days to Fix Finances”
- Make menus for three months and plan shopping list by sale ads
- Put all Jacob’s bonds together and list them (when received, by who, etc…)
- Save change all year for “Christmas fund” and put in an ING account
- Eliminate debt
- Track every dime spent for one month (3/31/09)
- Avoid all unnecessary spending for one month
- Start a “new car” fund
- Start a “college” fund for boys
- Start a “vacation” fund
- Start a “wedding” fund
- Start a “gift” fund
LEARNING
- Get an Associate’s Degree
- Learn 100 words/sayings in Croatian (2/100)
- Take a photography class
- Learn how to change a tire
- Attend ten workshops (0/10)
- Learn the sign language alphabet (0/26)
- Learn how to use five different exercise machines at the gym
- Apply to University
- Read or watch at least two news stories a day for a month (8/28/08)
- Get college transcripts from MVNU
- Get college transcripts from COD
- Research bpd (8/17/08)
- Learn 50 new abortion facts I didn’t know (3/50)
- Take a cooking class
- Take a course at MIT online
- Take a surfing lesson
- Learn how to use the grill
- Take a belly dancing class
- Take a self-defense class
- Learn to speak Spanish fluently
- Learn to speak Croatian fluently
- Earn a Bachelor’s degree
- Earn a Master’s degree
- Relearn CPR and the Heimlich
- Learn about real estate
- Learn about investing
- Take a creative writing class
- Take guitar lessons
- Learn how to make five mixed drinks
- Do a project through wikiversity
- Learn how to say hello in ten languages
- Be able to identify all states on a map
- Learn all State capitals
- Learn more about my heritage
- Learn more about Croatia
CAREER
- Create a professional portfolio
- Write my resume
- Organize article file
- Find a flexible, well paying job
- Become a teacher
- Teach someone to read
TRAVEL
- Plan and take a vacation
- Go to the beach five times
- Go camping once a year
- Go to California
- Visit family in New York
- Visit family in Pennsylvania
- Go on a boat
- Visit a botanical garden
- Spend a day downtown
- Go to an orchard and pick apples (9/7/08)
- Go to an amusement park
- Take a road trip
- Go to the zoo
- Go to a waterpark
- Go to a museum
- Stay somewhere overlooking the water (3/21/09)
- Go to Tahiti
- Visit all 50 states (IL, WI)
- Go to New York for New Year’s Eve
- Go on a cross country road trip
- See five of the top USA wonders
- Go to DisneyWorld
- Go to Wisconsin Dells again
- Go to Africa
- Visit the Holy Land
- Go to Croatia
- Go to Hawaii
- Visit MVNU again
- Go to Mackinac Island again
- Go to Saugatuck, MI again
- Be in two states at once and take a picture
- Go to a vineyard
- Go to the Arboretum (4/09)
- Go to the Crystal Cathedral again
- Go to the Boardwalk in Maryland again
ENTERTAINMENT
- Erase songs on IPod that I don’t like
- Add songs to IPod monthly
- Create playlist on IPod for working out
- See 25 movies I’ve never seen before (10/25)
- Make a top 10 list of movies
- Make top 10 list of songs
- Attend one concert a year
- Attend 10 festivals (0/10)
- Go to a drive-in movie
- Spend a day watching a tv show marathon
- Go to a taping of the Oprah show
- See Blue Man Group
- Join Netflix
- Listen to each of Rolling Stone magazines “500 greatest songs of all time”
- See all of AFI’s top 100 movies
- Watch the Planet Earth series
- Watch one new television show a season :)
- Watch the olympics (at least 5 different sports)
- Watch 25 documentaries a year (Watched: 1)
WRITING/READING
- Read all Nora Roberts books I own (read: 1)
- Read five financial books a year
- Read 10 parenting books a year
- Write a children’s book
- Catalog all books and organize them
- Write 10 reviews of places or services (www.lilaguide.com or www.yelp.com) (0/10)
- Own all Nora Roberts books that are written
- Write the book that’s been in my mind for years but first talk to HER about it
- Read 10 relationship books a year
- Subscribe to two magazines (2/2) (8/9/08)
- Publish an article online or in print
- Try to get Morgan’s story published
- Publish something I’ve created through lulu.com
- Join a book club and read at least one book with them
- Publish a novel
- Go to a book signing for a book I’ve read
- Write three “letters to the editor”
- Make and maintain a list of books I’d like to read
- Complete book about my life for children
- Read five “banned” books
- Listen to an audio book all the way through
- Complete a NaNoWriMo one year
- “Discover” 10 new authors I like
- Get something published in a “chicken soup for the soul” book
CREATIVE ENDEAVORS
- Setup a scrapbooking area
- Create scrapbook for Jacob’s first year
- Create a scrapbook for Lucas’ first year
- Create scrapbook for my relationship with Sinisa
- Create scrapbook of college years
- Join and sing in a choir
- Make boys an ABC book
- Make boys a family photo album
- Be an extra in a movie or tv show
- Organize pictures
- Audition for something
- Do a project from cutoutandkeep.net
- Take at least five pictures from each event I go to for a month
- Relearn how to crochet
- Do Live Journal’s “A Day in My Life” photography project
- Have a photograph in an art exhibit
- Make something using a pottery wheel
- Can something for winter
- Purchase a real photography camera
- Buy an old piece of furniture and fix it up
- Bake a pie from scratch
- Make a recipe scrapbook
- Sew something
- Try a new recipe every month
- Make a Christmas scrapbook each year
- Bake cookies every Christmas
- Make my handwriting into a font
- Make homemade chicken noodle soup
- Organize recipes
GIVING BACK
- Volunteer 10 days of my time a year
- Give away 500 items (100/500)
- Give blood once a year
- Do 50 random acts of kindness a year (Acts :4)
- Tell a manager when I get good service (5/09)
- Attend a pro-life event
- Become a CASA (court appointed special advocate)
- Participate in Holiday gift tree for a needy child
- Write a letter to a politician about abortion
- Release five books through bookcrossing.com (0/5)
- Use reusable shopping bags for small trips to the grocery store for a month
- Replace light bulbs with energy efficient ones as they go out
- Look into recycling and start recycling cans
- Donate 50,000 grains of rice through freerice.com (3,000/50,000)
- Anonymously pay for five strangers coffees or food (0/5)
- Re-sign up to be an organ donor (7/3/09)
- Complete two March of Dimes Walks (0/2)
- Go through clothes and give away what I don’t want
- Volunteer at a soup kitchen
- Make five meals for a family in crisis
- Donate $50 worth of food to a food bank all at once
- Complete 10 things to become greener (0/10)
- Plant a tree
- Participate in “Earth Hour” each year
- Reduce carbon footprint by 10%
- Look into donating plasma
- Make someone’s Holiday wish come true
- Go on a Mission trip again
- Put change in someone’s expired meter
- Buy McDonald’s gift cards and keep in car to give to homeless/people in need
- Leave a dollar somewhere a kid will find it
- Become a big sister again through BBBS
- Give 10 unexpected gifts
- Build a house with Habitat for Humanity
- Become active in a non-violent pro-life group
- Visit an orphanage in another country
- Donate 10 malaria nets
- Participate in a walk for a charity
- Donate money and put my name on it (ie. college scholarship/park bench)
- Sponsor a child
- Anonymously mail a letter of encouragement to someone
- Write my congressperson about an issue that I’m passionate about
- Write a letter to five people who have influenced or inspired me
- Volunteer with Meals on Wheels
- Go to an abortion rally in Washington
- Start a non-profit organization
- Donate $10,000 (somewhere other than Church) over the course of my lifetime (Donated: $20)
SPIRITUAL
- Read the whole Bible using the year plan (5/365 days)
- Tithe weekly-10% of income (giving weekly but not at 10% yet)
- Find a church home (9/14/08)
- Do devotions every day for a month (0/30)
- Put myself in an uncomfortable conversation about Faith
- Read the Case for Christ
- Pray with someone who’s never prayed before
- Share the Gospel with at least 100 people
- Do a thorough study of Proverbs 31
- Keep a prayer journal for 6 months with answers
- Help develop a mom’s ministry at Church
- Start everyday in prayer
- Teach a Sunday School class weekly
FUN
- Watch fireworks live
- Go to a parade
- Drive around looking at Christmas lights (12/24/08)
- Go mini-golfing
- Walk along the lakefront
- Decorate Easter eggs (4/10/09)
- Play in the rain
- Go down a waterslide
- Shop at a Farmer’s Market
- Go bowling
- Make smores
- Draw with chalk on the sidewalk
- Go sledding
- Try 15 foods I’ve never tasted before (9/15)
- Build a snowman
- Finish a 1000 piece puzzle
- Complete a Suduko book (Puzzles completed: 158/182)
- Mail a secret to postsecret
- Color in a coloring book
- Go swimming
- Play a board game (11/15/08)
- Fly a kite
- Achieve a 30% winning percentage in spider solitaire (28% currently)
- Complete a crossword puzzle on my own (8/12/08)
- Go horseback riding
- Plant flowers
- Race a go-kart
- Play laser tag
- Go pumpkin picking and carve the pumpkin (10/30/08)
- Shop at a thrift store other than Goodwill
- Play the lottery (7/28/08)
- Visit five new restaurants (4/5)
- Send out a message in a bottle
- Go out for ice cream (7/29/08)
- Go to a sporting event
- Get a typing speed of 100wpm at typeracer.com
- Register five dollar bills at wheresGeorge.com (5/5) (8/9/08)
- Go to Benihana restaurant
- Ride a train
- See a Cirque de Soliel show
- Go to a Bear’s game
- Ride in a stretch SUV or limo
- Get picture taken at Glamour Shots
- Go to a Haunted house
- See what “Sonic” is all about (4/4/09)
- Go to a flea market
- Have mimosas one morning
- Go on a bike ride
- Meet someone famous and take a picture with them
- Go to a play
- See a stand up comedian
- Build a sandcastle
- Play darts
- Play pool
- Go fishing
- Stay at a lake house for a weekend (3/21/09)
- Ride in a Gondola
- Make a snow angel
- Watch the ball drop in times square
- Go skinny dipping
- Go out on a paddleboat
- Name a star (or have one named after me)
- Go on a high ropes course
- Swim with dolphins
- Play five board games I’ve never played before (2/5)
- Make and maintain a list of local places to go
- Make and maintain a list of events in the area
- Visit a spa
- Rent a beach house for a week
- Play backgammon again
- Stay in a hotel in town
- Play a complete game of Monopoly
- Take pictures in a photo booth
- Go Christmas caroling
- Play a SIMS computer game
- Go ice skating
- Go skiing
- Go to Taste of Chicago
- Go to Oktoberfest
- Find five letterboxes
- Make Easter baskets (4/3/09)
- Win something
- Play in the rain
- Do five “touristy” things in my city
- Dress up for Halloween one year
- Drive a convertible with the top down
- Break a world record
- Be a contestant on a game show
- Shop at Mall of America
- Order room service
- Go paintballing
- Play laser tag
- Try real sushi, not just California rolls
- Go to Navy Pier
- Go to brunch
- Visit a castle
- Stay at a 5 star hotel
- Get an ice cream cone from an ice cream truck (for myself!)
- Find a four leaf clover
ONLINE/COMPUTER
- Create and maintain a list of favorite websites
- Create and maintain a list of my online profiles
- Clean off computer hard drive (8/10/08)
- Empty email inbox and keep it empty (3/15/09)
- Print out pictures on Snapfish
- Organize pictures on the computer (2/16/09)
- Add pictures to flickr account
- Update all online profiles
- Start a blog and blog at least twice a week for a month (8/28/08)
- Put all CD’s onto the computer
- Have 100 subscribers to my blog
- Sign up to stop receiving junk mail
- Sign up for National do not call list (2/23/09)
- Rename blog (3/09)
- Start a preschool blog
- Find one new interesting website a month (2/18/09)
- Buy, install, and learn to use photo-editing software
- Develop pictures within two weeks of taking them
- Buy an external hard drive to put pictures onto
- Scan photos in computer and put online
THINGS TO BUY
- Crib for Lucas (3/7/09)
- Video camera
- New phones (3/6/09)
- Desk
- TV Cabinet
- Pots/Pans
- Dishes
- Engagement/wedding ring
- Baking dishes
- Knives
- Wii
- Metal escape ladder for boys room and balcony
- New Computer
- Wagon for boys
- Sand and water table (4/27/09)
- Dresser/Clothes storage for Lucas (4/09)
JUST BECAUSE I NEED TO
- Wash car inside and out twice a year (2009: 1)
- Get oil changed four times a year (Times Changed: 2)
- Renew license plates yearly (Times Renewed: 2)
- Update address book
- Get a new passport
- Get a new license (7/3/09)
- Renew lease (3/17/09)
- Buy a fireproof/safe box (3/6/09)
- Get resident card from town I live in
- Get life insurance
- Check voicemail every day or every other day
- Return voicemails within 48 hours
- Fix back breaks and suspension on car
- Vote in every election (Voted in ‘08)
- File taxes yearly (Done: ‘08)
- Compile all financial/account information together in one place on a USB drive in case something happens to me
- Put an “emergency supply kit” together

















